Choosing the right photographer, know what you want

Booking a photo shoot is more than just picking a date and showing up. It requires understanding what you want from the experience and the final images. If you expect a photographer to transform you into someone you are not, this is not the right place. The truth is, not every photographer works the same way, and knowing what you want will save you time, money, and disappointment.

Be Clear About Your Expectations when choosing the right photographer

Before you book a photographer, ask yourself what you want the photos to show. Are you looking for polished, heavily edited images that change your appearance? Or do you want honest, natural photos that reflect who you really are? Some photographers specialize in creating fantasy-like portraits, while others focus on capturing reality without altering the subject.

If you want to look like a supermodel or someone completely different from your reflection, this photographer is not the right fit. The goal here is to photograph the truth of what is in front of the lens, not to mold you into an idealized version. This approach celebrates your unique self, including imperfections.

Research the Photographer’s Style and Approach

Photographers have different styles and ways of working. Some emphasize storytelling through their images, while others focus on simple, beautiful moments. It’s important to research and understand how a photographer works before booking.

Ask Questions Before Booking

Never hesitate to ask a photographer about their process, editing style, and what you can expect from the shoot, post shoot and what is included in the price. Clear communication helps avoid misunderstandings.

For example, a recent experience involved a client who had preconceived ideas regarding what was included in their photo shoot based on previous shoots with other photographers. This mismatch caused frustration because the expectations did not align with what I offer. To avoid this, look at a photographer’s portfolio, price list, read their descriptions, and ask questions. In my case I itemise what is included in your shoot when invoicing the fee (as well as stating it on my website and when quoting), so make sure you read it and ask any questions if you are unclear on anything before making payment.

Some useful questions include:

• How do you approach photographing people and pets?

• Do you do heavy retouching or keep images natural?

• What should I wear or bring to the shoot?

• How long does the session last?

• What is included in the final package?

  
  

Getting answers upfront helps you decide if the photographer’s style matches your vision.

Understand That Photos Don’t Always Need to Tell a Story

There is a common belief that photos must tell a story or have a deep meaning. While storytelling can add value, it is not a requirement for every photo. Sometimes, a simple image of you and your pet together, freezing a moment in time, is enough. This kind of photo captures genuine connection and emotion without needing a complex narrative.

If you have a specific story you want to tell, share it with your photographer. A good photographer will work with you to bring that vision to life. But if you want straightforward, natural photos, that is equally valid.

Embrace Your Authentic Self

The best photos come from being comfortable and confident in who you are. This means accepting your natural appearance, including any imperfections. A photographer who values authenticity will help you relax and enjoy the shoot, resulting in images that truly represent you.

If you are ready for real, relaxed, natural photos that reflect you and your horse, dog, or any other subject close to you, then you are ready to book a session that honors your true self.

Final Thoughts

Choosing the right photographer starts with knowing what you want. Be honest about your expectations and do your homework. Look for a photographer whose style matches your vision and don’t be afraid to ask questions. Remember, photography is about capturing moments that matter to you, whether simple or complex.

If you want photos that show the perfect person you already are, warts and all, and a photographer who celebrates that truth, you have found them.

If you have a specific vision, if you want to tell a story, I'm all up for helping you tell it!